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For the people pleaser, perfectionist, overachiever ready to trade hustling to prove herself for more peace, confidence and calm

Because let’s be honest, all that caring what other people think, anxious attachment and living a life that looks good on paper but leaves you feeling “meh” gets really exhausting.

Your simple plan to stop living to please.

Whether you’re on day 1 or 1000 of your recovering “good girl” era, the no brainer place to start is my mini-course, “Debunking the Need to Please”.

Every day for the next 6 days, I’ll drop a juicy email in your inbox with some of my biggest aha’s, some of the practices that have helped me and the important reminders, specifically for the overachiever type, to help you really understand what it’s going to take to tackle that people pleasing and stop caring so much what other people think. The best part, it’s totally free.

 
 

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Let’s just say I have a lot of thoughts about the mindset, habits and tools that help former people pleasers and perfectionists fast track to a more confident, secure, fulfilled version of themselves. You can check them all out below or let me help you find what you’re looking for…

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The London Guide

London is a magical city made up of lots of smaller neighborhoods, each with their own charm. It is impossible to see it all in one trip but the exploring is the best part!

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The Rome Guide

Rome has figured out the whole building a life around eating and relaxing. Dolce far niete as TikTok has taught me! It’s truly a magical historic place!

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The Paris Guide

There’s a reason so many people have a love affair with Paris. People talk about it being the most romantic city in the world and think it’s for couples but I can think of at least dozens of people I know who found a little more love for themselves here

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How can I be sure he’s right for me? Here’s why it shouldn’t matter

How do you decide if a relationship is right for you? When you are starting to get to know somebody, how can you be sure that they’re the right fit? These are common questions asked by those dating but this question has a problematic understanding of the components of a good relationship. I’m breaking down why you should stop caring about being sure.

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8 Things I've Learned about Personal Growth

Every piece of work we do to understand our mind and have a healthier relationship with ourselves is building our habits for the future. But as I have been spending more energy on this task, one of the first things I struggled to wrap my head around was "What does growth even look like?"

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Books that Changed How I Look at Money

And I really wish more schools would teach some basic personal finance way younger to give more people (especially women) confidence in their knowledge about personal finance. So I’ve continued to add to my knowledge over time, through my favorite source of new knowledge: books!

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Credit Score 101

There’s one number that has a pretty serious impact on your financial life but it’s not 100% clear how it’s calculated. Unfair, right?

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Saving for Retirement 101

Anytime I start reading or researching investing or taxes or money in general, it prompts a bigger topic: What are we saving FOR? No matter how far off retirement is for you, one day we'll all want/need to stop working and need to have enough money stored away to finance our life. Are you ready?

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Taxes 101

Let’s talk about the reason why that fancy salary number you were told when you got the job doesn’t magically appear in full in your bank account every month!

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Gender Pay Gap 101

This is not a happy topic. This one makes me angry. Especially when you add it to all the other bias related stuff in our world. It makes me extra angry for black women, latinx women and women of color who get and even shorter end of the stick.

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Gender Investing Gap 101

This post covers one of those mysterious, mystical (not at all….) forces that stops women from achieving their biggest dreams. It’s a topic that I can't. stop. talking. about:

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A game changer for finally releasing those stubborn limiting beliefs

You know what your patterns are, you know what the fears are but how do you actually go about shifting those subconscious beliefs that dictate how we act when we’re triggered or emotional?! Turns out, it’s not about understanding as much as it’s releasing emotions from when you picked them up in the first place. There’s so many tools out there that claim to do this, but honestly, this is the one I keep coming back to. It doesn’t hurt that it can fit in pretty much anybody’s budget. (Plus the code SAMANTHA gets you an extra 15% off!)

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