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For the people pleaser, perfectionist, overachiever ready to trade hustling to prove herself for more peace, confidence and calm

Because let’s be honest, all that caring what other people think, anxious attachment and living a life that looks good on paper but leaves you feeling “meh” gets really exhausting.

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Your simple plan to stop living to please.

Whether you’re on day 1 or 1000 of your recovering “good girl” era, the no brainer place to start is my mini-course, “Debunking the Need to Please”.

Every day for the next 6 days, I’ll drop a juicy email in your inbox with some of my biggest aha’s, some of the practices that have helped me and the important reminders, specifically for the overachiever type, to help you really understand what it’s going to take to tackle that people pleasing and stop caring so much what other people think. The best part, it’s totally free.

Looking for something specific?

Let’s just say I have a lot of thoughts about the mindset, habits and tools that help former people pleasers and perfectionists fast track to a more confident, secure, fulfilled version of themselves. You can check them all out below or let me help you find what you’re looking for…

Should I be try being a Digital Nomad? A Beginner’s Guide

The thing to understand is that there are so many different ways to do remote work/digital nomad life and that it’s entirely up to you to craft an experience that feels good to you. Becoming a digital nomad is an exciting idea, especially if you’re a woman in your 20s or 30s, yearning for a life that blends work with adventure. The idea of working remotely while traveling can feel like the ultimate dream, but before you dive in, it’s important to get clear on why you want this lifestyle and how to make it work for you.

8/13/23 8/13/23

The Nantucket Guide

There is nothing like summer on Nantucket. It is truly my happy place. A lot of Nantucket charm is the insider spots, the hard to find beaches and the unfinished moments, so I absolutely recommend not trying to overschedule your time on the island. Time is supposed to slow down on the island - enjoy it!

5/25/22 5/25/22

The Dallas Guide

A list of some of my favorite spots from my hometown! An often underestimated city in the US for food, culture and much more.

5/15/22 5/15/22

The London Guide

London is a magical city made up of lots of smaller neighborhoods, each with their own charm. It is impossible to see it all in one trip but the exploring is the best part!

5/15/22 5/15/22

The Rome Guide

Rome has figured out the whole building a life around eating and relaxing. Dolce far niete as TikTok has taught me! It’s truly a magical historic place!

5/15/22 5/15/22

The Paris Guide

There’s a reason so many people have a love affair with Paris. People talk about it being the most romantic city in the world and think it’s for couples but I can think of at least dozens of people I know who found a little more love for themselves here

5/1/22 5/1/22

Coastal Grandmother Guide to Nantucket

The coastal grandmother aesthetic is here to stay but if you are trying to experience it on Nantucket this summer, here’s the best way to enjoy the coastal grandmother life, nancy meyer’s aesthetic and all!

2/7/21 2/7/21

New York City’s Best Burgers

Burgers are a key topic for any foodie in NYC discussion. I have some pretty strong opinions on what qualifies as NYC’s Best Burger. Hope you enjoy!

7/19/20 7/19/20

Great NYC Restaurants You Might Not Hear About

There are so many “hyped” restaurants in New York. And many of them deserve it. But there are some awesome spots that are doing awesome meals for great evenings that don’t need fanfare. I lovingly refer to these as “cool but not fussy” and I mean that as the highest compliment.

7/19/20 7/19/20

Best NYC Brunch Spots

Regardless of your opinion on brunch, New York City does it really well. This list could be enormous. I’m keeping it to the places I would happily go on a Saturday morning!

7/19/20 7/19/20

NYC Classics You Must Try At Least Once

There are some famous New York spots - some famous from movies, others from just the folk lore of the city - where everybody should try once. I would say this applies to tourists or NYC residents but it especially applies to NYC residents. Let’s call it a point of pride.

7/19/20 7/19/20

Sam’s All Star NYC Restaurants

There’s a million ways to slice and dice restaurant recommendations. But when it all comes down to it, we all have our favorites.

These are mine.

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