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For the people pleaser, perfectionist, overachiever ready to trade hustling to prove herself for more peace, confidence and calm

Because let’s be honest, all that caring what other people think, anxious attachment and living a life that looks good on paper but leaves you feeling “meh” gets really exhausting.

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Your simple plan to stop living to please.

Whether you’re on day 1 or 1000 of your recovering “good girl” era, the no brainer place to start is my mini-course, “Debunking the Need to Please”.

Every day for the next 6 days, I’ll drop a juicy email in your inbox with some of my biggest aha’s, some of the practices that have helped me and the important reminders, specifically for the overachiever type, to help you really understand what it’s going to take to tackle that people pleasing and stop caring so much what other people think. The best part, it’s totally free.

Looking for something specific?

Let’s just say I have a lot of thoughts about the mindset, habits and tools that help former people pleasers and perfectionists fast track to a more confident, secure, fulfilled version of themselves. You can check them all out below or let me help you find what you’re looking for…

Why you should start asking for more perks today (and how to get started)

If you want access to the network of free stuff, rewards and benefits, it all comes back to cultivating your ability to ask for what you want. Getting over your fears around rejection or what people will think is the key to more confident, a more luxe life and more ease day-to-day

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Why you should learn to love uncertainty

The uncertainty, which can come with disappointments like ghosting or a “meh” date, is a sign that we're putting ourselves in a situation with the potential for upside. But if we charge our dating life with too much unknown (betting big to win big, looking for our person), it's like we're day trading - not likely to succeed in the long run!

11/17/20 11/17/20

Books that Changed How I Look at Money

And I really wish more schools would teach some basic personal finance way younger to give more people (especially women) confidence in their knowledge about personal finance. So I’ve continued to add to my knowledge over time, through my favorite source of new knowledge: books!

10/30/20 10/30/20

Credit Score 101

There’s one number that has a pretty serious impact on your financial life but it’s not 100% clear how it’s calculated. Unfair, right?

8/8/20 8/8/20

Saving for Retirement 101

Anytime I start reading or researching investing or taxes or money in general, it prompts a bigger topic: What are we saving FOR? No matter how far off retirement is for you, one day we'll all want/need to stop working and need to have enough money stored away to finance our life. Are you ready?

8/8/20 8/8/20

Taxes 101

Let’s talk about the reason why that fancy salary number you were told when you got the job doesn’t magically appear in full in your bank account every month!

8/8/20 8/8/20

Gender Pay Gap 101

This is not a happy topic. This one makes me angry. Especially when you add it to all the other bias related stuff in our world. It makes me extra angry for black women, latinx women and women of color who get and even shorter end of the stick.

8/8/20 8/8/20

Gender Investing Gap 101

This post covers one of those mysterious, mystical (not at all….) forces that stops women from achieving their biggest dreams. It’s a topic that I can't. stop. talking. about:

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WHAT OTHER GIRLIES SAY

“Samantha was instrumental in helping me change my thoughts about myself and my self-worth. These are techniques that I'll be using for a long, long time!”