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For the people pleaser, perfectionist, overachiever ready to trade hustling to prove herself for more peace, confidence and calm
Because let’s be honest, all that caring what other people think, anxious attachment and living a life that looks good on paper but leaves you feeling “meh” gets really exhausting.
Your simple plan to stop living to please.
Whether you’re on day 1 or 1000 of your recovering “good girl” era, the no brainer place to start is my mini-course, “Debunking the Need to Please”.
Every day for the next 6 days, I’ll drop a juicy email in your inbox with some of my biggest aha’s, some of the practices that have helped me and the important reminders, specifically for the overachiever type, to help you really understand what it’s going to take to tackle that people pleasing and stop caring so much what other people think. The best part, it’s totally free.

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Let’s just say I have a lot of thoughts about the mindset, habits and tools that help former people pleasers and perfectionists fast track to a more confident, secure, fulfilled version of themselves. You can check them all out below or let me help you find what you’re looking for…
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Great NYC Restaurants You Might Not Hear About
There are so many “hyped” restaurants in New York. And many of them deserve it. But there are some awesome spots that are doing awesome meals for great evenings that don’t need fanfare. I lovingly refer to these as “cool but not fussy” and I mean that as the highest compliment.
Best NYC Brunch Spots
Regardless of your opinion on brunch, New York City does it really well. This list could be enormous. I’m keeping it to the places I would happily go on a Saturday morning!
NYC Classics You Must Try At Least Once
There are some famous New York spots - some famous from movies, others from just the folk lore of the city - where everybody should try once. I would say this applies to tourists or NYC residents but it especially applies to NYC residents. Let’s call it a point of pride.
Sam’s All Star NYC Restaurants
There’s a million ways to slice and dice restaurant recommendations. But when it all comes down to it, we all have our favorites.
These are mine.
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