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I think it’s time I got personal

Yeah, it wasn't cute. The boy I had been talking to had ended our “situationship” for the second time and I was lost, wondering “What is wrong with me?” 
 

Now I know the answer. Nothing was wrong with me. But I was staying in situations trying to convince myself that things were going to work out, using a heck of a lot of fear as the reason (even if I couldn't see it at the time). 

 

Then coaching helped me see the ways I was making decisions out of fear of rejection as opposed to doing what would set me up best for happiness and connection. Within a year, I had shifted my dating life to be full of kind, thoughtful guys who have taken me on incredibly sweet dates, I left my stable corporate job to pursue entrepreneurship and freedom through this business, and even when things don't go my way (it still happens!), I don't beat up on myself and can bounce back quickly. 

But this doesn't just work for me! 

One of my clients was tired of always pursuing guys who never gave the effort back. Not long after she started coaching, we had built her confidence that the right person would come to her and barely halfway through, she started getting approached at bars with compliments about her energy. 

 

Another client was constantly feeling overwhelmed with what to do next, in her dating life, work life and so much more. Here's what she said barely halfway through working together:

And another client sent me this after we wrapped out work together:

Yup, I'm blushing but I'm pushing through because I need you to know that these types of changes are possible for you too whenever you're ready to take the leap.